why book
Why you should buy this book
You’re Right, I’m Wrong
because healthy, loving partnerships don’t happen by accident
Are you clueless about making your partner happy or wonder what they’re thinking? Have no idea why they get so mad over those little things, to the point that you think, there’s no way I’ll ever make you happy… so why even try?
Here’s a quick test: You pissed your partner off, and they go into the bedroom and lock the door. What should you do?
A. Leave them alone to cool off or
B. Knock on the door and apologize
The answer is B. Knock on the door and apologize. But you weren’t wrong! Why are you apologizing when you’re sure you’re right! The answer’s easy: you’re apologizing for not being on the same page with your partner. If you don’t apologize, you will live in misery in your own house. Apologize so you and your partner can start talking again. Understanding again. And getting on with a happy life and partnership. This book is all about living a fun and happy life.
If you selected A, then get this book
You will discover your four needs for happiness. You will also learn about your partner’s four needs for happiness. You’ll learn about how relationships go bad through four mistakes, four stages your partner will go through, and four lessons you were never taught. And after your eyes are open, you’ll be ready for 16 daily tools to repair four pillars crucial to a healthy relationship.
The advice and insight in this book can help singles approach new relationships in ways that will keep friends happy. Isn’t it time to skip all the silly games that just get in the way? Whether you feel that a current relationship could use improvement or you’re starting fresh, this book was designed to fix your approach to relationships.
CHAPTERS overview
What you'll achieve by this book
Chapter 01
Let's Get Real
It’s not your partner’s job to make you happy. Happiness is an inside job. You’re a great partner, right? Of course you are. So why do you need this book?
Chapter 02
Four Mistakes - Four Solutions
- Mistake 1: Neglecting or Ignoring Your Partner
- Mistake 2: An Attitude of Entitlement
- Mistake 3: Setting False Expectations
- Mistake 4: Telling Lies and keeping Secrets
Chapter 03
Four Stages of Relationship Decline
- Stage 1: Adjusting
- Stage 2: Selfishness
- Stage 3: Disrespect
- Stage 4: Incompatibility
Chapter 04
Four Skills for a Happy Relationship
- Skill 1: Ask the Question
- Skill 2: Make Good Choices
- Skill 3: Compromise
- Skill 4: Communicate
Chapter 05
Your Needs to Be Happy
- Need 1: What I LIKE
- Need 2: What I Don't Like
- Need 3: What I Suck At
- Need 4: What I Hate
Chapter 06
Your Partner's Needs to Be Happy
- Need/Pillar 1: Balance
- Need/Pillar 2: Equality
- Need/Pillar 3: Security
- Need/Pillar 4: Trust
Chapter 07
Daily Tools for Relationship Balance
- Balancing Friendships
- Managing Habits
- Checking Hobbies & Sports
- Balancing Work
Chapter 08
Daily Tools for Relationship Equality
- Reducing Arguments
- Bridging Beliefs
- Showing Appreciation
- Sharing Responsibilities
Chapter 09
Daily Tools for Relationship Security
- Feeling Loved
- Slaying Stress
- Taming Temper
- Managing Weight
Chapter 10
Daily Tools for Relationship Trust
- Keeping Boundaries
- Living the Lifestyle
- Stop Second Guessing
- Wary of White Lies
About the Author
Learn about the book writer
Jeff Marinelli
Jeff Marinelli is an author and magazine publisher focused on making a difference in his marriage, family, and philanthropic pursuits. One primary goal is to kick in when needed and ensure my partner is not stressed, which defines why “MY WIFE IS MY LIFE.”
He heads a dynamic team of high-tech, high-touch stars in his business life. But his most Immense joy comes from helping relationships thrive. He is not a psychologist but rather an optimist who has learned from profound experiences while living with his wife in personal and professional settings. His wife is a super-achiever, having worked with some of the world’s most influential entrepreneurs. Her achievements are noteworthy in growing and selling multimillion-dollar businesses.
Though she can be demanding, aggressive, and intimidating to others, Jeff’s focus on love and openness has enabled their friendship, love, and marriage to excel through the primary rule of trust. They are inseparable and committed to staying on the same page in decision-making.
TESTIMONIALS
What people said about my book
There are too many people nowadays who give up too easily on their partners, thinking that the relationship cannot be saved. You’re Right, I’m Wrong proves this wrong on so many levels! Often times, people take the easy way out, but ending a relationship you didn’t even start to work on should not be an option. Relationships take time and effort to develop and flourish, and this cannot be done …
Relationships are not static. Every relationship changes and goes through different phases, and often those changes cause the partners to drift apart. You’re Right, I’m Wrong is a book that everyone who has ever been in a relationship, is in a relationship, or will be in a relationship needs to read. It is a potent weapon for preventing or fixing many problems that often develop in relationship…
Love is described as beautiful, but it can leave you heartbroken, sick and depressed if not well-managed. Some people get into relationships with high expectations only to end up hurt and disappointed when their partners don’t meet these expectations. They forget that a partnership is built through mutual support, not dependency on one individual. The author of “You Are Right I Am Wrong” create…
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This book is all about having a great partnership. It takes a unique approach to your relationship. Part 1 starts by helping you understand how your partnership got so bad. It allows you to step back and connect with similarities in your partnership. The goal is to help you understand how you have unknowingly created problems so you can get on a path to fixing them.
Part 2 helps you to understand why your partnership went bad. This is where you begin to see what caused the disconnections. You’ll begin to see your actions in a new way, shining a light on how they affect your partner. Once you understand the how and why you are halfway to fixing your partnership.
Part 3 is the most important, because it’s about resetting the relationship. It has a step-by-step approach to fixing your partnership and sixteen tools needed to do so. When reading the book, you will understand what needs to be repaired in your partnership and, more important, which tools will fix it.
about the artist
Learn about the artist
Gonzalo Duran
Gonzalo Duran is an Angeleno-based artist with an international following. Born in Mexico, he immigrated to the United States as a child and grew up in East L.A. before attending Otis Art Institute and Chouinard Art School. He has been called the Marc Chagall of North and Central America. His brilliant, sometimes stunning color palette complements his boundless imagination. He runs the Mosaic Tile House with his wife, artist Cheri Pann, from their home in Venice, California.
Gonzalo was the perfect artist for this book because he lives what is written in this book. Gonzalo knows that when his partner is happy, so is he. He tells the visual story of the book through his artwork, and his work is a true gift to readers.
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A quick test
Emma Hatley appeared on Sky News to discuss some reasons for the firm seeing divorce enquiries rise by 122% from July to October 2020 compared to the same period in 2019. Surveys conducted by Citizens Advice Bureau showed similar trends. Emma noted that the increased pressure of home working and schooling, as well as potential health and financial concerns may have played a role in this.
- The US divorce rate is the third-highest in the world.
YOU’RE RIGHT, I’M WRONG IS THE GAME CHANGER!